Youth and Love Failure Episode 129, LIFE LESSONS AJ

 

One of the major problems in the youth today is the Love Failure. Let us look into the probable reasons and solutions.

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I was recently surfing about the general problems in youth physically. Many problems like premature aging, hair fall, and stress came out. As the process continued with this, I came to know there are many more problems that the present youth is facing especially in India. Unemployment is a well-known problem in the youth. We all know it very well. But there was something that stood among the top list and surprised me. This was the Love Failure. I was surprised as I was not expecting this to be on the top list here. Then that I began to think what the probable reasons are for this. Many reasons came out as the answer.

 To describe all the reasons, one blog will never be enough. Therefore I would like to share one such thing that is probably the main reason behind many love failures- Unemployment. If you ask what are the other reasons, I would defiantly say, they all come after this problem. Let me share a small story of my friend to understand this aspect better.

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The chronicle:

There was a friend Poorna (Name changed). He was in love with his classmate Neha {Name changed). They were in a relationship right from their secondary school. They often stayed together and dreamed to get married and live happily. But things were not normal all the time.

The picture is Just For Depicting The Characters.  There are not original people.

They both went to the same college near them. Poorna was not an excellent student; he was just an average one.  As soon as the graduation was about to finish, the family members of Neha started planning about her marriage. That time she managed to ask them for some time. At the same time, she asked Poorna to get a good job so that she can talk about him to her family. The bad part was that the college not even offered any placements to the students.

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Here arose the most common problem in the life of Lovers. Neha’s Parents needed a guy with a handsome salary, but maybe Poorna needs some time to earn well. Neha couldn’t hold her parents for long. Her parents indeed waited for 2 years. Poorna got into a job but was not ready with a handsome salary. Finally, the moment came and Neha’s marriage was set with some other guy with a good salary.

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Observations:

There can be two important observations in this particular scenario. Firstly, Neha and Poorna Are classmates and are of the same age. Secondly, Poorna was a casual-going guy and not an exceptional being. These two are the probable main reasons behind their love failure.

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Youth and Love Failure:

In the present scenario, these sorts of problems are the main reasons behind the failure of many beautiful love stories. To be frank, these problems are inevitable.  One of the main reasons behind this is that the age of marriage is not the same for guys and girls in a country like India. Girls get the age of marriage soon after their graduation, but this is not the case with the guys. Thus, we can clearly say that there is no fault on the side of Neha’s Parents. Now, where does the problem arise? Is there is a solution to this? Let us look into the same in the coming lines.

This Picture is for the depiction of the Coeducation system only.

Love and affection happen with long exposure between the people. When two people are not related or exposed to one another, nothing would probably happen between them. Let's look into the instance of Poorna and Neha. They were in the same school and college. They had enough time and chance to be exposed to one another. Here exposed in the sense the chance to meet, talk, and share things with one other. They may not happen to all people. We all have friends in our childhood who were of the opposite gender. This does not mean that we are in life with them. But for love to happen, there must be long exposure and this happens very easily because of the coeducation system today. Not it is not right to comment on this system and it is not correct to say that co-education is the reason for this. It is good to consider that exposure between people is inevitable in this phase, especially in adolescence.

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Thus thinking of these two aspects (Parents and the exposure). We can only think and conclude that one has to be careful in dealing with all these if he wants to make his love successful. Now the question is how can this be done? The answer can actually be derived from the problem that has aroused. The guy needs to be in a good position with a good salary beforehand to ask the hand of the girl to her parents. Now, what is the probable solution? The solution is that if a guy falls in love and wants that girl in his life, he needs to be a step forward compared to other guys. He needs to be more careful about his life and future as he has to take responsibility at a younger age.

Work hard to be a Step Ahead

The sad truth is that people at that tender age do not generally have the ability to think this deeply. But this blog may help them to plan their life accordingly.

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Bottom Line:

Before I could give my bottom line I would like some points clear. I just analyzed the case on the side of the guy and have not yet done the same on the side of the girl. Thus the perception on the other side is still unanswered here. On the other hand, all the cases may not resemble the same chronicle I stated. There may be some parents that accept love and wait or may have them married at that very age. Or the riches of the guy may help him deal with the situation. I only want to highlight one of the common problems today and tried to answer it. I have no intentions to hurt or go against the opinions of anyone.

I hope the aspect I wanted to share is clear. I know this blog is not for all age groups but this is necessary for those people who don’t know how to handle things in their love life. Thus I request to share this with those young people to understand what needs to be done.

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