5 Ways to deal with Betrayal Episode 81, LIFE LESSONS

 

Betrayed? Here Is What You Can Do

We all would have witnessed betrayal on one or the other levels in life. The main challenge in these situations is that we fail to accept this and also fail to decide what we should do. I will try to narrate such ways that can be done to deal with these situations.

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As depicted in the previous lines, like any other person I too have witnessed many betrayals in different parts of my life. I had no idea how to deal with these scenes and ended up with few days of depression. One fine day, I decided to find out a solution to face these solutions. I tried to check out various sites on the internet and books but couldn’t find any appropriate solution for the same. This made me sad, but soon I noticed the mentality of few people and observed how they dealt with betrayals.

After few months of repeated observations, I found out that no matter who may betray us, it is our decision to how to react and deal with them. In many commercial movies that we come across, it is always showcased that the protagonist fights and kills the opponents out of revenge of betrayal. Well, this would definitely not be the solution for each and every betrayal; neither does our constitution permit it.

Depending upon the level we are affected and the person who betrays, we can react in one of the ways as depicted in the coming lines. Before we can look into various methods or ways, it is important on our part to understand and decide what is the importance of the person and the betrayal for us. Is the person more important than the betrayal or not. If it can’t be the digital answer, at least we need to analyze to what extend does it affect us This decision will help us to decide one of the ways depicted according to our decision. 

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 Here are those methods:

1.     Forgive Method

The simplest possible method is the forgive method. No matter who betrayed us, we can forgive them and move forward. This method gives us peace of mind by leaving no trace of negative thoughts about the instance. Many religions state the forgiveness is the most ideal way for a peaceful life.

There are many such betrayals that we can never forgive. It is because the loss that the betrayal has brought about such a loss that we can never forget in life. In these scenarios, we can check out the upcoming methods.

But, it is important to note that the forgive method gives us the opportunity to create happiness in no time in case we get ready to forgive.

2.     Workout Method

There are many cases (that even I have witnessed) where the confusion is misinterpreted as a betrayal.  As a business person, I have met with much such confusion in my transactions. Many a time I perceived that I was betrayed in many instances, but it was just confusion due to the lack of communication. Similar may be the case with many people where confusion may turn into a perception of betrayal.

These cases need a workout method. This method depicts that both parties should talk to each other openly about the matter to settle out the matter. This eradicates the confusion of any and may lead to a happy ending.

There are cases where actual betrayal is solved by this method. In case, I have been betrayed by one of my friends, I would talk to him and make him understand about my loss and make him clear the situation. The workout method can be amazing in these sorts of scenes as well.

3.     Quit method

Mentors often suggest us to get away from negative and harmful people. The person who betrays us is definitely a harmful one to us. Thus it is sometimes good to leave their company, on the whole, to avoid such betrayal to happen in the future. This is useful if the mentality of that person is not healthy and directs for more such betrayal in the future.

4.     Leave the Topic Method

I never knew about such a method until I saw one of my friends actually using this for everyone who betrayed him. He was an open-minded and extroverted friend who build relationships with many people. This is the reason he is never interested to lose any person completely.

He is also prone to various big and small betrayals in life by many people around him. But his attitude towards them never changed. He just decides to not repeat such a transaction or instance with them to avoid such betrayals again.

 For instance, He lent a small amount of money to his classmate and was betrayed by this amount.  He never stopped talking to his classmate, but he rejected lending money again. This attitude made him keep the relationship just by weaving off the affected part of it.

This method seems to be the best of all the methods provided, but this can't be followed to all sorts of persons. This method is valid if one of the traits of the person is harmful. But when the person himself (herself) is harmful, this can never be the solution.

5.     Revenge Method

This is the least advised method of all the methods provided here. This as the name suggests, we can look up the opportunity to betray the opponent. This is never a suggestible one there may be some instances where this method turns inevitable.

All the methods depicted above are depended upon our decisions about what is more important to us- the betrayal, revenge, or the person. When the person is important to us, we need to implement the workout method, Leave the Topic method, Leave the Topic method or the Forgive method. But if we feel that betrayal is most concerning than the person, then the other methods can be implemented according to our decision.

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Bottom Line:

Betrayal has been an inevitable part of some lives right from the start of mankind. Great historic stories like Mahabharata started with betrayal. Thus it becomes our responsibility and right to react and deal with betrayals to the best that we can and is needful. I hope the methods depicted above would help you to decide and do the needful.

Disclaimer: The methods and views are purely the results of my perceptions, experience, and observations. I’m not against the views of anyone. If you feel that there is some other way to deal with these situations, I’m glad to know from you. Please don’t hesitate to comment on your views and methods in the comment box.

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