Is your life complete? The answer will be NO definitely. Let Us know how to make life complete in this episode.
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We all need a complete life. No
one is an exception to it. When we talk about the need for a complete life, we
are implicitly specifying something. We are specifying that our lives are not
complete. I believe no one in this world is content with his (her) life and
wants something to get a complete life. Before we talk about the perceptions in
this context, let us have a look into the current scenario of people. Are
people having a complete life? The answer is definitely NO. This is because
people have one or the other lacking in life. One may think of having riches,
one may think of having a good family, while some others may think of a
promotion. These are quite common because each one of us is looking at something
with belief that our life will be complete when we get it.
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Now the question is does life gets complete when we get it? Let us take an instance from the above lines. To a person looking to have a promotion to have a complete life, is his life really going to be complete with the promotion? The answer perfectly lies with him. Generally, in these cases, the person gets content with it for some time and then starts looking for some other.
In this particular instance, the person after getting the promotion
may feel contented in life, but till when? After a few months, he may dream of having a big car to match his status after the promotion. Now paying the EMIs for
the car may hamper his so-called “COMPLETE LIFE”. These
observations made me think about the right solution and perception towards
life to make me feel contented.
In this process, I felt that we need to look into life in two ways and
deal with it accordingly. Let us look into the same in the coming lines.
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The
Right perception:
To get the right idea and perception, we need to look at this aspect in two instances.
Contentment in Life:
We generally are not contented in life because we always compare ourselves with others. No Matter if you don’t like this but it is true. A person can happy at his position without promotion if he decided to do so. But he always looks at the promotion because he sees the riches and offerings at the staff at a higher level. He compares himself with his superiors; this makes him feel that promotion is the need to get a complete life. There is nothing wrong with it if he sees the lives of the superior from all angles. But this does not happen in most cases. He fails to notice the increased work pressure and other complications. This is the reason why he starts facing some other problems even after getting the promotion. Let us not compare everything with others in life. Even if we had to compare, let us compare keeping all the aspects in life (I mean both positive and negative aspects).
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Life is irregular:
It is important to understand that life is very irregular. It is not going to be the same all the time. Thus the meaning of complete life may change at times. For instance, a person can live a complete life without promotion, but the increasing prices of the commodities will force him to earn more money, and this means he would have to look for a promotion. Now, in this scenario, he should also get ready fr the complications that he had to face with promotion. In the same way, the family will not be the same all the time to be contented with. A guy in his early 20s can have a happy family with his father mother and siblings, but when he reaches near 30, he needs a wife, and this would act as his requirement to have a complete life.
Thus on the other side, it is important to understand that the life changes with time, and thus the place in which we are may not look complete in other circumstances in the future, to make this complete we need to achieve something more.
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Bottom Line:
The entire solution depends upon two important factors: our perception and the ability to get what we need that too in time. When we have the right perception, we can be contented at any point. On the other hand, when we feel a need for something at any point in time due to change in the circumstances, we should strive to get that to make life complete. Both these factors are required by anyone to maintain the balance and make life complete.
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