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When we get betrayed, we fail to understand who would like to betray despite our good attitude towards others. Here is the answer to the query.
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Disclaimer: This complete episode is going to be at a
negative pace. Please cope up with it to understand the real essence at the bottom
line.
In one of the previous episodes, we have looked into the various ways to handle the betrayal. These
were the probable ways to come out of the issues of the same. Check out the
Episode here. One of my friends gone through the same and thanked me for the
post. But there was a query in his mind that was equally important as the probable
ways to solve the same.
He was able to
solve many such situations after going through the episode. But he always
wondered why one would betray him. He was a sweet person and is always a good
person in society. He always cared about others. He was also a good
employee in the office and an able person to plan his life.
He asked me to
state who would be those persons who could betray a good person like him. The query
he asked seemed to be valid. This is the question that runs in minds of many
people. I tried to understand who would be these people and tried to narrate
the same in this episode.
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The following people betray you the most:
1. The one who wants to use you
This is the most common reason for the betrayal. People want to use others’ and their abilities absolutely free. This is the reason behind the betrayal.
There was a friend of mine Jay. He was a good sportsperson. He would probably play as a national player if he tried well. Once there was a plan for conducting a district-level cricket match series. This series was planned to be conducted in March. This was the time of final examinations in various schools and colleges. The same was the case for Jay too. He too had final examinations in the college.
Since he was a wonderful player, he was invited to play for the college team in the series to which Jay rejected keeping in mind the examinations that were going to be held during the same time. But the principle was not ready to leave him. He forced Jay in all ways possible. At the end of the day, he finally assured that Jay would be helped in the examinations to write better to which Jay too agreed. He was confident that the exams were going to be all good due to the support of the principal. He started practicing hard for the matches. As days passed, exams arrived. He sat on his bench and was waiting for support. Minutes passed but nothing has arrived. He waited for almost one and a half hours, but nothing arrived. He started losing hope for the support and started to answer those questions that he was able to at least attempt. Finally, he could answer something that would make him pass the examination.
After the examination, he went straight to the principal’s
chamber. He found that the principal is not in the chamber. Minutes passed and he
began to understand the complete Screenplay. He was betrayed by the Principal. The principal wanted to take the college team towards victory, he wanted Jay and used him in requirement
and finally betrayed him.
This is one of those perfect instances of betrayal because the person wanted to use you.
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2. The one who is Jealous of You
The person who is Jealous of you always tries to bring you down in one or the other instances. This is the reason they would never leave any chance to betray you.
Nat and Sam were neighbors. They knew each other for almost a decade. Sam was not from a good financial background. But he always tried to bring the family towards a happy lifestyle. He always strived to save money and buy something for a house or family. This attitude made him buy many items for the house such as various electronic appliances, vehicles, etc.
On the other hand, Nat was from a good financial background and was a jovial enjoying personality. He had a good amount of income which he spent on fun and enjoyment. Due to lack of planning, he could not buy various items for the house compared to Sam. Years passed on and this attitude difference between the both brought about a great difference.
As days passed, Sam decided to buy a car on EMI. After lots of research and inquiries, he decided to buy a car that perfectly fits his budget and needs. The car he selected was to be pre-booked by offering an advance token amount. He also came to know that there was a deadline to book in that year. Since Sam was a good friend of Nat, he asked for advice from Nat too. Nat suggested waiting for some time as some new models were about to release shortly. This made Sam step back from booking.
Days passed on and the deadline for that year went out of hand. Sam couldn’t book the car. Later that day Nat came to Sam with a big smile stating that the new models are arriving after 6 months, and started saying Sam would have booked the car he wanted.
This instance is the best example of betrayal due to jealously. Sam was not aware of that and asked for the suggestion to Nat. this gave a chance Nat to bring down Sam and he had not failed to do so.
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3. The One who wants something from you
This is something that is the other side of the first postulate depicted above. Wanting you to do something is what is described in that postulate. This describes a broader idea of the same. When someone wants something from you, they stay loyal and friendly with you. They promise to provide you something much more than what you are asked to offer. But when your turn is over, they turn over their faces because they got what they want from you. This is an unacceptable stage of betrayal, but still is one of the most common reasons.
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4. The one who is basically sick by head
Some people are basically sick by their heads. These people betray people for no reason sometimes. Having an unbreakable relation with these people is the worst thing that can actually happen with anyone (I’m one of them :)). This is because it is almost impossible to draw boundaries that can make us happy away from them. Probably the solution is developing ultimate tolerating power. But everything has a limit and the same is the case with tolerance too.
Also, Check Out 5 WAYS TO DEAL WITH BETRAYAL here
Bottom Line:
The persons that I have depicted above are the most ones who betray us. I decided to share this episode mainly to make everyone aware of what type of people are there around us and to whom should we be careful. This is to be noted that I have not suggested any solutions to get off of these people and their mentalities. I would probably share the same in one of the coming episodes.
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